August 2025

Germantown, NY

Ruth & Ade

Ruth & Ade

A timber barn on a working farm

A timber barn on a working farm

Guests dance under string lights in a timber barn at Ruth and Ade’s reception, with the barn doors open to the dusk

Date

Place

Germantown, NY

Guests

180

Coverage

9 hours with Nell and Sam

Collection

The Wedding Day, plus one hour

An August wedding for 180 guests in a timber barn in Germantown, with a ceremony in the hayfield, a change into coral aso-oke and a money spray that lasted most of an hour.

Ruth grew up twenty minutes from the farm, and Ade’s family drove up from Houston and Maryland. With 180 guests, two large families and an outfit change, we added a ninth hour, and Sam stayed for all of it.

The ceremony

Ruth got ready in the farmhouse with her best friend, Hana, who did up her necklace and then her shoes. The ceremony was at 5 in the hayfield next to the barn. Ade cried during Ruth’s vows, and that photo is the one his mother framed.

The reception

After dinner the couple changed into coral and gold aso-oke that Ade’s mother had made in Lagos, and the family danced them back in. The money spray went on for most of an hour. Sam stood on a hay wagon for the wide photos while I stayed inside the circle.

The barn has no air conditioning, and it was 84 degrees at sunset. If you are getting married in a barn in August, give your guests fans and give yourself a spare shirt.

Ade wipes a tear while Ruth says her vows in the field

Sam and Nell were in two places at once all night. We have photos of both our mothers dancing at the same moment on opposite sides of the barn.

Ruth

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From the gallery

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Ruth and Ade walk through a golden hayfield beside a weathered gray barn in Germantown
Ruth and Ade dance in coral aso-oke as family members spray banknotes around them
Ade wipes a tear while Ruth says her vows in the field
A friend fastens a gold necklace for Ruth in a white farmhouse room
The two mothers dance together in gold and coral at the barn reception while guests clap
Ruth and Ade laugh together on the barn dance floor in matching coral aso-oke
Ruth and Ade walk through a golden hayfield beside a weathered gray barn in Germantown
Ruth and Ade dance in coral aso-oke as family members spray banknotes around them
Ade wipes a tear while Ruth says her vows in the field
A friend fastens a gold necklace for Ruth in a white farmhouse room
The two mothers dance together in gold and coral at the barn reception while guests clap
Ruth and Ade laugh together on the barn dance floor in matching coral aso-oke
Ruth and Ade walk through a golden hayfield beside a weathered gray barn in Germantown
A friend fastens a gold necklace for Ruth in a white farmhouse room
Ruth and Ade dance in coral aso-oke as family members spray banknotes around them
The two mothers dance together in gold and coral at the barn reception while guests clap
Ade wipes a tear while Ruth says her vows in the field
Ruth and Ade laugh together on the barn dance floor in matching coral aso-oke

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